DRS femme1 480x400DRS femme1 480x400





DrugRehab PotBanner

PotBanner narrow

How Can I Help a Family Member to Get to Drug & Alcohol Rehab?

You have long suspected it. Your husband has not taken you out to dinner in ages because every moment he is off work he is drinking. Your teenager has stopped seeing the friends he grew up with and the new group of friends he is seeing has you feeling uncomfortable. Your wife is hard to live with when she is running low or out of her prescription medication, although the injury, she was on meds for happened well over a year ago, and she has been given a clean bill of health. Your brother calls from jail or some motel room, strung out yet again and asking you to help him out.

So how do you help a family member get to rehab? Enabling the addiction, fighting nonstop, none of this is helping. You feel like you cannot do it alone yet you do not think you can take another day like so many before it. There is good news. You are not alone.

DRS femme2

DRS femme2

Call the helpline. That is your first step. Speak to our counselor. Let them know that you are concerned about your family member. The counselor has heard your story before which is GOOD NEWS because you are not alone. You are not just a statistic, and the counselor will most likely advise you to set up an intervention. This is where a group of you will talk to the family member with the addiction. A professional counselor will more than likely be there in order to oversee that it is done in the most positive yet straightforward way possible. A discussion filled with love and concern without the accusations and yelling that often occurs in these family battles.

The intervention will be gone over thoroughly with you before your family member is addressed. It could even be rehearsed. The important thing is that you are able to come together to let the family member know it is out of love and concern, and that it is not a ganging up the situation. Interventions are commonly used because the ultimate goal is getting the family member into rehab and by having a heartfelt discussion without a lot of accusations, in an environment of trust, with a professional counselor who knows how to proceed is the best route for most families.

Call the helpline and get started on getting your family member to a drug rehab center. This time next year you could very well be celebrating a new life, a new lifestyle and the old family member that you loved and knew was hidden somewhere in that controlled addict.


marcel gemme author

Marcel Gemme

More Info

Marcel Gemme has been helping people struggling with addiction for over 19 years. He first started as an intake counselor for a drug rehabilitation center in 2000. During his 5 years as an intake counselor, he helped many addicts get the treatment they needed. He also dealt with the families and friends of those people; he saw first-hand how much strain addiction puts on a family and how it can tear relationships apart. With drug and alcohol problems constantly on the rise in the United States and Canada, he decided to use the Internet as a way to educate and help many more people in both those countries. This was 15 years ago. Since then, Marcel has built two of the largest websites in the U.S. and Canada which reach and help millions of people each year. He is an author and a leader in the field of drug and alcohol addiction. His main focus is threefold: education, prevention and rehabilitation. To this day, he still strives to be at the forefront of technology in order to help more and more people.

Meet an Expert

Sylvain Fournier

Sylvain Fournier | Bio

Across Canada, there are many different treatment options to choose from, private, government-funded, inpatient, and outpatient. See More